This framework for identifying unhealthy relationship behaviors stems from the Gottmans’ famous “Love Lab” research.

In distilling his very thorough research for practical application, John Gottman argues that there are four main relationship killers: criticism, contempt, defensiveness and stonewalling. He calls ...

Divorce often feels like a bolt from the blue. However, some experts believe the storm was predictable. Psychologist John Gottman even believes he has identified the behaviors that most often lead to ...