Sexual energy can be very powerful if you know how to channel it, but it is still not magic. A lot of people panic when they realise their partner is turned on by something “wrong”. But it is important to remember that fantasy and reality run on different rules. What excites the brain in sex is NOT a reflection of who you are in real life. It is just a mental shortcut that helps the body let go of control more quickly. For some people that shortcut might be certain words, for others it might be