14 Temper Tantrum Tricks from Real Parents

Qais Parkar on Instagram: "are you accidentally breeding snakes? this is the cobra effect (aka perverse incentives). it happens when you reward a “result” without looking at the “method.” we do this all the time: • parenting: you give your kid an ipad to stop them from throwing a tantrum. (congrats, you just incentivized tantrums). • dieting: you “reward” yourself with a pizza for going to the gym. (you just incentivized exercise as a punishment that requires a treat). • sales: you pay recruiter